Find closest multiple of $10$ to $41$. We see that $4 \times 10 = 40$ is the nearest. Now subtract $40$ from $41$ to get reminder $1$. Add $4$ to quotient.
Since $1$ is less than $10$, stop the division. The reminder is $1$. The topmost line $04$ is the quotient. Remove all zeros at the start of the quotient to get the actual quotient $4$.